Friday, December 31, 2010

My Favorite Things: The 2010 Recap

This year felt like one long episode of Oprah's Favorite Things.  Except it was MY favorite things that I was giving away and MY favorite people and causes that I was giving to.  Not quite as flashy as Oprah's but the intention behind the giving was the same.  LOVE.    

And in the process, I learned so much about myself and the way the Universe works.  Do good and good comes back to you.  It's the Law isn't it?  So simple.  What you put out comes back to you.  Well, if I needed evidence of that, this year it was shown to me over and over again.  Every day.  Not that anyone should give to get.  It's just inherent in the nature of giving. 

My favorite of all things to give is time.  Donating time/volunteering changed my life and gave me more than I could imagine or give back.  Not only did I meet some of my greatest new friends volunteering but some of my favorite days and moments of my year life happened on those days.  My life will never be the same after this year.  

I have new like-minded friends, causes I care passionately about, new favorite places, a changed perspective on the nature of the world and a new direction in life.  I now know more about myself and what I want to do with the rest of my days.  I want to make giving my full-time job.  Up until now, I have done everything I ever wanted to do since I was a little girl.  I crafted the life of my dreams.  But somehow, after this year, it no longer feels like mine.  The causes I have dedicated myself to, and giving every day, are now what I want to do.  So I plan on creating a new life based on giving.  I am going to take a leap of faith, follow my heart and create the new life of my dreams.  (More on that to come!)

Now for the re-cap of my favorite moments of this year:

1.  Operation Beautiful - I think self-esteem is the key to changing the world.  You have to fearlessly be yourself and love yourself for it.  Only then can you really begin to give to the world.  Change yourself to change the world.  The world will become as you are.


2.  My mom's first tattoo - Still as beautiful as the day she got it!


3.  Jewelry - I continue to make jewelry for all my loved ones and that jewelry continues to bring them good luck.  It's crazy the things that have happened to them shortly after receiving their piece.  Found the love of their lives, were gifted thousands of dollars, found a new path in life...  All true stories.


4.  Volunteer days with Animal Acres & Sea Shepherd - Beautiful days surrounded by compassionate hearts.  World Fest, Compassionate Cooking Event, The Great Shark Affaire, 4th of July Pignic and all the non-event work days.  Some of the best days ever.


5.  India - My incredible adventure in India with VegNews Magazine and VegVoyages.  Even though I loved all the time we gave, our day at Animal Aid Udaipur was by far one of the greatest days giving love.  Animal Aid does incredible work for animals and the ones I met that day, I will never forget.  I absolutely promise to return again. 


6.  The Freedom Awards -  I had the incredible opportunity to volunteer with Free The Slaves for the 2010 Freedom Awards after-party, Freedom Rocks.  Their mission is to end slavery worldwide and the awards celebrate heroes of the anti-slavery movement.  It was an amazing night and I hope to continue working with Free The Slaves in the future.


7.  Slaughterhouse Memorial -  My hometown is factory farm central.  Feedlots surround the city and there is a major slaughterhouse just minutes away from my childhood home.  Over Christmas weekend my mom and I decided to set up a memorial for the lives that are so often forgotten.  I created 2 memorial posters with pictures and fresh flowers.  At midnight on 12/26, we headed out.  What we felt, I can't even describe.  Or what we saw...  It was an unforgettable experience that will stay with us forever.  But we were so proud of ourselves for dropping off our messages of love, dedicated to the beautiful souls who lose their lives every minute of every day.


I have many more favorite moments but I picked 7 because it is my favorite number/lucky number.  Can't wait to see what 2011 has store.  I feel like this year has inspired me to give even more next year.  That's right, the giving will continue.  Forever.  It has become part of my life.  So much that there is no need to plan or worry about what to give, it just happens.  Naturally.  Every day.  

Happy New Year!

♥∞,

~B
"The more one forgets himself by giving himself to a cause, or another person to love - the more he actualizes himself." --Viktor Frankl
 

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Tomorrow makes it a year...

December 1st, 2009 was when I started all this and it's amazing how I have changed.  How my life has changed.  So, I want to end this year, the way I started it last December.  Make every day an event in giving.  Making it as exciting and fun as possible!

Right now I am thinking of ideas to make this month absolutely stellar.  To give more than I ever have.  Donations, time, money, gifts...  I've been extra joyous at the start of this holiday season and I'm ready to quite literally "give it my all".  

I'm ready!

♥∞,

~B

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Incredible India!

So, you may have noticed that there are blogs missing in the months of August, September and October.  There is an excellent reason for that.

Earlier, in March of this year, I saw a tweet (yup, a tweet) from VegNews Magazine about joining them on a trip to India.  I assumed the link led me to a contest entry.  Nope.  Instead it was an organized trip to India through the magazine and VegVoyages.  A completely vegan trip to explore Northern India.  I don't know what got into me but I immediately sent an email to reserve myself a spot.  I got a reply back with instructions to put down a deposit.  Without hesitation, I paid.  And I never looked back.

I did have some trepidation about how the heck I was going to afford this trip (though it was quite affordable) but instead I focused on what I was committed to as opposed to how I was going to get there.  I worked extra hours every chance I got and ended up raising a good portion of my trip.  That however, took months.  I was too busy/tired for my regular yoga practice (oh the irony) and too busy to blog or do anything else.  Social life?  Non-existent.  But, I paid my full trip, airfare, vaccinations and everything else that came along with it.  (And still paying for some of it.)  It all worked out quite easily in the end.

Then finally, the trip came.  And Oct, 8th 2010, I was off to London.  Yes, London.  I had a 10 hour lay-over before heading to Delhi.  I've never been to the UK (or out of the country much for that matter) but I knew I wasn't going to spend the 10 hours at Heathrow Airport.  So I didn't.  I rushed out of there fast and hopped on the Tube.  Exited at Kings Cross Station and headed to Vx aka the Secret Society of Vegans.  The only place I knew I wanted to visit.  All I had was an exit and an address.  It didn't take long to find.  I lounged at the Vx Shop, wandered around SoHo and basically just took in a beautiful London evening.  Then it was back to Heathrow to catch my flight to Delhi.


And so I arrived at Gandhi Airport just after 10am on 10-10-10.  I was greeted by Zac and Singhji of VegVoyages and my incredible, unforgettable, life-changing adventure through India began.  It's too big of a trip to completely detail or do justice here.  (2 whole weeks!)  Instead, check out the itinerary.  It was action packed everyday!

It seemed like every moment I was in awe thinking, how did I get here?  The entire trip was as if I was in constant prayer... in gratitude.  My senses and my heart were like enormous sponges.  Taking it all in and growing bigger and bigger to a level I never thought possible.  I fell in love over and over with the scenery, the culture, the people, the sights, the animals and the FOOD!  


There is nothing like India.  I was told by the more seasoned travelers that you can travel anywhere but India will change your life.  I didn't quite grasp the full effect of that until I came home.  Besides awful jet lag, coming home was equal parts happy to be home and heavy sadness to leave.  My heart feels like it is still there and I need to go back and get it.  Much like being homesick. 


Then there are my travel mates who are some the greatest friends I will ever know.  Every one of them, beautiful.  Of course, the friends we met along the way were equally amazing.  Then there were the sights!  My breath was taken away at every turn.  Every place topped the last.  Same goes for the food, every meal was better than the last.


Oh and the opportunity to give was every turn.  I had taken lots of snacks from home to travel with.  I ended up giving most of them to hungry kids in the street.  We also gave some of our time at 2 elementary schools, a woman's college and 2 animal hospital/sanctuaries.  One of my favorite days was volunteering was at Animal Aid in Udaipur.  Much like my beloved Animal Acres here.  I gave love to paralyzed dogs, walked amputee dogs, brushed crippled cows, donkeys with broken limbs and played with orphaned calves.  A truly rewarding day spreading love.


There was also the yoga, the grand palaces, little villages, the Gandhi museum, ancient temples and a charming mausoleum called the Taj Mahal.  I've never seen anything like what I saw in India.  From the gorgeous palaces to the poverty stricken tiny villages, to me, they were all beautiful I still wish I was there.  In my dreams, I am still there.  Still in the country that has captured my heart. 


I wish I could go into ALL the details of the trip, like the most epic traffic jam ever, hanging out with royalty in Kishangarh, Badrajun and Udaipur, taking the Indiana Jones-style jeeps out to the sand dunes to watch the sunset, having lunch with the Bishnois, attending ceremonies in ancient temples...  You see what I mean, and most of that happened in one day!


Going on this trip has given me so much clarity about... EVERYTHING.  In the 3 weeks since I've been home, now that the dust has settled, I have even more perspective on my life and what I want from it.  One year ago, I never would've thought that this trip could have happened.  But look at the transformation in my life!  From just starting the simple challenge of giving something every day and extending compassion to others...  From simply being love on a daily basis.  To where I am now.

Incredible.

"Every moment of your life is infinitely creative and the universe is endlessly bountiful. Just put forth a clear enough request, and everything your heart desires must come to you."

~Mahatma Gandhi

♥∞,
 

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

On the Eve of a New Year

No, not the New Year.  MY new year, my Birthday.  And my life is completely different from what it was like exactly one year ago.  I had just given my mom a really cool trip down to visit me and tickets to the Ellen show.  That's when I first started having the idea of giving something every day.  I started it off just a few days after my birthday at the 1st of December 2009.

It's funny to me now how that first month I planned so much of it.  There's a coat drive going on here, a food drive here, volunteering on this day, etc.,  Even the first few months of this year I still planned so much of it.  I also kept meticulous track of it in a journal.  Such detailed notes!  

In the last couple of months, I've let go of planning and keeping track.  I don't need to.  The Universe does it for me.  It automatically plans what will be given every day.  I don't even think about it, but if I do, the answer is there.  Exactly the perfect thing is given on the perfect day.  Every day.

I've learned a lot about myself and have grown in the best possible way.  In an amazing way!  I have gotten to go places I would have never thought (at this time last year) that I would ever go.  The things I have experienced, the friends I have met, the sights I have seen...  It's clear that some of the greatest friends I have met been through volunteer work!  There is no better way to meet like-minded individuals.

The transformation of the last 11 months is absolutely incredible.  I am a whole new person.  I'm so different it's actually kind of crazy.  Most importantly in the past couple of days my life's purpose has become crystal clear.  And it has EVERYTHING to do with giving.  My life is forever changed.

Happy Birthday to me.

♥∞,

~B

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Christmas in July

I've lost track of what I've given these last few weeks.  Everyday was like Christmas and I was Santa Claus.  It was a whirlwind and I had the time of my life.  Giving love, presents, food, time, acts of kindness, rides, books, gifts of all kinds to my family, friends, students, strangers, foundations and more.  

And I got love, kindness and even some gifts myself.  I wish I could remember even a small fraction of what I gave, but I do remember everything that I received.  My favorite moment was getting a thank you yesterday from the parent of one of my assistants.  She told me that I was teaching the kids much more than just dance and that she appreciated everything that I've done for her daughter.  It was so touching I didn't even know what to say.

It's not just about fun surprises for friends, donating money and volunteering time, but about putting love and kindness first.  Giving presents is totally fun but knowing I've made a difference is what gives me the most happiness.  
"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.  If you want to be happy, practice compassion."                                         --The Dalai Lama
 ♥∞,

~B

Monday, June 14, 2010

Time, time, time...

I've spent the last month and half donating time all over the place!  (No time to blog!)

Spent it at:

*Animal Acres 

*WorldFest with Sea Shepherd (most fun EVER!)

 

*Choreographing for one of my student's Sweet 16 Party

*Assistant stage managing for my friend's Dance Studio Show

 

*Cleaning up the local park 

*Made food for the Sea Shepherd Whale Wars Watching Party and took friends


 

*Spent time with the AMAZING 79 year-old Doris 

*Tended to a friend's herb garden while she's away (inspired me to plant my own, oregano, cilantro, basil, parsley and mint)

*Made (vegan, gluten free, chocolate, coconut) brownies for one of my classes

*Even spent the day doing my civic duty at Jury Duty (don't think it technically counts, haha!)

I've been a very active activist!  I've also signed petitions galore, given donations to the Salvation Army, gave a friend a day of work, bought food for people in need, planted some trees and donated money to a few places

One of my favorite things though, was making jewelry for my graduating seniors and teaching assistants.  It took up A LOT of time, but the outcomes were SO worth it!  And even though I was tempted (with each one) to keep what I'd made, I happily gave out my creations.  Here are some of my favorites:

 

Much of my time the last 2 weeks went to making all of these but I really LOVE it! 

I have donated time and so I've received time in return.  I've had the last 2 days to just relax and have fun.  Though more volunteering is coming up this coming weekend for Surfrider's Project Save Our Surf!  Beach clean up, 24-hour Surf-A-Thon and spreading awareness.

 What's not to love? 

♥∞,

~B
"Anything that is of value in life only multiplies when it is given."
                                                                     --Deepak Chopra

Saturday, May 15, 2010

A Daring Rescue

Okay, not quite so daring, but I did rescue a little white fancy rat from impending doom.

As I approached the park with my dog last week, I noticed something little and fluffy in the grass.  That's a rare sight as there are no fluffy things in our park.  Not with all the predatory birds (like hawks) that live there.  I walked up to it and saw that is was a little rat, seemingly healthy and clean but scared to death.  I can't imagine how it got there, except maybe it's owner no longer felt like having a pet rat and thought the park would be a good place to set it free.  Not smart.

So I took my dog back home, dumped my recycling box and grabbed a towel.  I ran back downstairs to the park (it's across the street) and my new little friend was being stalked by big black crows!  He wasn't moving, he just made himself into a ball.  I shooed the crows away, though they were rather reluctant to leave.  I quickly threw the towel over the fluffy one, wrapped him up and took him home.  All the while reassuring him that he was safe and he was loved.

 

I kept thinking of the quote, "When you see something that needs to be done and you think, 'Someone should really do something about that.'  Remember that YOU are someone."

I know it's a risky move to take home a stray rat, but I wasn't going to leave him out there to face danger alone.  I put him in the big box, got him some water and in the few minutes I had before needing to leave for work, researched what to feed him.  Dog food, veggies and fruit.  Check, check and check.  I hated to leave him for the day, but I had to go to work.

When I came home, he still looked scared but the worst for him was over.  I didn't know what to do with him but my heart said, keep him.  I have the space and I have the love.  So I did tons of research, called friends who have had rats as pets before and most importantly, made him an appointment to go to the vet.

He's a healthy little guy I have named Charlie.  His favorite snacks are peanuts still in the shell and my dog's (vegan) dog food.  He likes building hills in his cage out of the bedding.  And he falls asleep when I (very badly) sing him improvised lullabies.  



Charlie has become my poster child for kindness and compassion.  If a little rat can be saved from a terrible situation, then anyone can.

But there's another message too.  That life can change in an instant.  You could be in the worst possible scenario with not a single shred of hope or salvation anywhere in sight.  Then in a flash, life can scoop you up, reassure you that you are safe and give you a life better than you could have ever imagined.  (Charlie is quite the spoiled rat.)

If it can happen for Charlie, it can happen for anyone.


♥∞,

~B  (and Charlie.)

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Transformation

This weekend + me= Transformation.

It all started Friday night with a special LA screening of the Cafe Gratitude documentary, May I Be Frank.  The movie follows Frank Ferrante through 42 Days of Transformation lead by three young men, Cary, Ryland and Conor of Cafe Gratitude.  During the process, he only ate raw vegan food, practiced gratitude, visited holistic practitioners and got a weekly colonic.  Frank's transformation is miraculous.  He has become a radiant and beautiful person from the inside out.  Frank and the filmmakers were there after the screening to discuss how it all happened.  It was a truly inspirational night filled some of my favorite faces and set the tone for the weekend to come.

Saturday Animal Acres held their Compassionate Cooking Event which I was a volunteer for.  There were food demonstrations all day by vegan chefs like, Colleen Patrick-Goudreau, Kim Garr who runs C'est La Vegan Bakeshop, raw food chef and owner of Leaf Organics, Rod Rotondi and more.  I was in charge of the goats for the day, who I was more than happy to be with since they are good friends of mine.  I did get to listen in on Colleen's discussion on love, compassion and veganism.  It was a talk that could have easily been given at a Cafe Gratitude workshop.  Everything she said resounded so much with what I believe in.  It was funny, honest and moving.

Later, Kim Garr made a rhubarb cake for her demonstration that hands down was the best cake (vegan or non) I have ever had.  In addition to the the amazing (free!) food I got to sample, I got to spend some time with my animal friends.  They are the real reason why we all gather there.  I remember when I first started going there, I had never been around farm animals and used to only carefully pet them.  Now I literally throw my entire weight onto them to give them hugs and kisses.  They love it.


Animal Acres is a place thick with love.  It is palpable.  You can feel it and breathe it when you're there.  Love is radiating from every corner and from all the beings there, human and animal.  It was an exhausting day, but as always, well worth the effort.

Today, Sunday, my best friend and I signed up to join the volunteer team for the brand new CA office of Sea Shepherd.  We arrived at their new office in Venice to a lite vegan (yes!)  breakfast welcomed by the lovely Grace who coordinated the whole event.  We watched a great video on the history of Sea Shepherd and it's Captain, Paul Watson.  Then Kurt Lieber gave us a run-down of what our duties as volunteers would be and the upcoming events.  We also got to meet Luke Tipple who is a marine biologist and runs the organization, Shark Free Marina.  He told us what his organization does and how easy it is to get involved.  After talking with everyone, we were beyond excited about all the wonderful work and fun we're going to have being involved with BOTH organizations.  From there is was off to whale watch.  Which was fun until the motion sickness set in and we missed the whales.  Blue whales even, the largest animal to ever live on the planet.  Oops.  Good thing our work with Sea Shepherd will all take place on land.

When I finally got home today, exhausted, I took my dog to the park.  While running around in the grass, around trees and down hills I was overcome with gratitude.  And not in a simple way where I was grateful for my recent experiences but on a much grander scale.  I was thankful for all of experience and existence itself.  For my existence, the Universe and everything that is beyond it.  It washed over me and after I came back inside, that feeling stayed with me.  Even though I am thankful for the little things, I am also grateful for those things that are bigger than me.  Those that are beyond what we can see with our senses, those things that we can only feel.

And so, I've emerged from this weekend a new, upgraded version of myself.  I keep being guided to amazing places, people and experiences that I'm convinced are molding me into the person I am meant to be.  Just like Frank in the movie.  He began transforming into his truest self.  The day he walked into the cafe, Ryland asked him, "What is one thing you want to do before you die?"  Frank replies, "I want to fall in love one more time, but no one will love me looking the way I do."  After the screening during the Q & A, Frank addressed this question, simply saying that the person he fell in love with, was himself. 

Cafe Gratitude will be opening up their 1st LA restaurant at the end of this year (yes!) and held their 1st Kindred Spirits Workshop in the area this past weekend.  The workshop explores "accessing the most authentic self: unconditional love."  As much as I wanted to attend this workshop, I feel like I experienced my own version of it this weekend.  Surrounded by kindred spirits, practicing and being unconditional love. 

♥∞, 

~B

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Random Acts of Kindness

"Real generosity is doing something nice for someone who will never find out."  ~Frank A. Clark
Now that giving everyday has become an automatic part of my day, I wanted to detach myself from the outcome of the gift and give to people I don't know.   So this month I tried my best to give out into the world.  The great Random Acts of Kindness Foundation helped me out and can help you if you need inspiration on where to start.  

I was able to reach far into the world this month and give with the help of some other wonderful organizations:

*World Malaria Day was just a few days ago on April 25th and through Population Services International (PSI), I was able to give a weeks worth of mosquito nets to pregnant women and children (who are the most as risk).
*Through PSI I was also able to give, a weeks worth of Pregnancy & AIDS prevention, life saving oral rehydration salts and two days of safe drinking water for a child.
*April 22nd was Earth Day and though I celebrate our planet and conserve on a daily basis, I thought it would be a great day to plant a tree or two.  But, plant a tree where it will really count.  Through Trees for the Future I planted two trees somewhere where it is very much needed, such as Ethiopia, Haiti, Nicaragua or the Phillipines.
*Oxfam International's goal is to overcome poverty and injustice.  Through them I got to give two special gifts.  By simply giving a quarter-pound of multipurpose soap I supplied a deserving community with life saving soap.  I also gave a child in a poor community a nutritious meal at school.
*Meals on Wheels is on their "Meals for Moms" campaign for Mother's Day.  Just $7 will provide a warm meal for a mom and at the Care2 site you can send well wishes to these mothers and grandmothers who because of health problems and lack of transportation will spend this special day alone.  You can go right now and make sure that a sweet message will be delivered to them along with a great meal.

Today being National Pay It Forward Day, it seemed like an appropriate gift to give.

I gave lots of sweet gifts to friends (hula hoops, jewelry, books) as well as my favorite organizations (Humane Society Emergency Fund, Greenpeace, Animal Acres Emergency Rescue), but I kept in mind my goal for the month. 

I realized that it could be as simple as putting money into a tip jar on the counter when no one is looking.

Give without expectations!

♥∞,

~B

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Good for the Soul

I had so much fun giving this month, I almost forgot to blog.  With a few exceptions, I spent most of this month giving to those closest to me.  Here are some of the awesome highlights and fun happenings as a result:


I started the month off by attending the "Feeding The Soul" benefit concert.  It featured some of my favorite artists and went to benefit the Brother Benno's Soup Kitchen and Haiti Relief Fund.

The sound-man at the show, was none other than my favorite musician, Jason Mraz.  Though he was dedicated to his job running sound, he did get up and join his friend Billy (Bushwalla) on stage.  What a fun night raising money for a good cause!


 I also spent some more time at my favorite animal sanctuary, Animal Acres.  It was a crazy weather day with lots of hard work, but we had a ton of fun too. 


Ok, so all of a sudden I am on this jewelry making kick.  I gave 5 specially designed bracelets to friends and made a few pieces for myself.


 The bead store is now my new favorite place to hang out!


If you are my friend and you have yet to receive a piece of jewelry from me, it's just a matter of time...

Though I mostly doted over my friends this month, giving goodies and sweet treats, I did do some other great things for others.  Both human and animal.  I donated some shoes to Soles 4 Souls.  A wonderful organization that provides shoes for those in need.  They have drop-off locations all over and distribute a pair of shoes every 9 seconds.  Look for one near you.


One of the most important causes I've taken on this month is the annual slaughter of baby harp seals in Canada.  ...I don't even know where to start.  The slaughter got underway this past Sunday to a slow start, thankfully, as only one ship headed to the icy nursery.  Thanks to some countries banning seal products (our country is NOT one of them), the price of pelts has dropped significantly and less "hunters" have headed out.  Also, due to climate change, the ice is thin and a dangerous condition to both humans and animals.  I've been spreading the word and encouraging those with compassionate hearts to speak out on behalf of these beautiful creatures.  Read more about it and look up the heartbreaking videos and horrific pictures.  Which I won't post here.  Instead, these lovely sights:

"Think occasionally of the suffering of which you spare yourself the sight."
Lastly, Operation Beautiful continues to grow throughout our campus.  More posters pop up all over the school everyday.  Amazing that a few post-its with some encouraging words can start a whole movement.  Proof of my whole mission!


So, I'm looking forward to a whole new month filled with opportunities to give everyday.  This month was so focused on giving to my closest that next month I will be (mostly) devoting myself to random acts of kindness.  More on that coming next month!

♥∞,

~B
"All your actions are echoes. What you give, you get back, but several times more. So, if you want to gain more, give more."  --Swami Satchidananda

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Colorful!

That is the only word I can use to describe the gifts given (and received) this month.

COLORFUL! 

Everyday has been fun.  I've given a lot to my students:  my copy of Franny & Zooey to one of my kids who is a Salinger fan, my purple corduroy TOMS to another and various other goodies.  Included in that was inspiration, which I think may be the most important of gifts.

I also gave to random strangers.  Money to the homeless, a Starbucks gift card to the nice lady who was collecting donations for the homeless, my box of CRV recyclables to a man who was searching through the dumpsters for them and donations to The Salvation Army, Humane Society, The American Red Cross (this time for earthquake relief in Chile) and even dressed up as cupid for the Valentine's Day Make-A-Wish Foundation Fundraiser.  (It's best I don't have a photo of that...)

Gave my favorite gifts to friends and family though.  Cookies for a helpful neighbor, advice, cards and recipes to friends.  But best of all, took my momma to get her first tattoo.  She was so funny, blowing bubbles, cracking jokes and tweeting during the whole process.  I have the coolest mom.  I love spending time with her.  That was my gift. 


And so I had another "AHA!" moment this month about giving and receivingYou can be really good at one and bad at the other.  If you give, you're bound to receive, but you have to be open to it.  I came to the realization that though I'm a really good giver, I'm a bad receiver.  I get bashful with a simple thank you.  I'm not sure why this is.  But it became apparent this month when I was given some amazing gifts:
  • I was given a free Acupuncture session.
  • I went in to renew the lease on my apartment and they lowered my rent!
  • I got my car insurance renewal and in the envelope was a little certificate that said, "Congratulations we've lowered your premium!
  • I got a new fridge (which lowered my monthly rent even more since I no longer have to rent one) for practically nothing from a friendly neighbor.
  • And other delightful surprises from the Universe...
 Luck seems to constantly be on my side.

The more I'm given, the more I become comfortable in receiving and the more I realize that I am worthy of receiving.  That was the "AHA!"I am worthy of receiving.   I just have to be openThe more I'm open to receiving, the more I receive.  So, I put some reminders up on my new fridge to keep me in that mind-set.

"The more you let go and surrender to your calling and know you are worth all the good stuff, the faster it shows up."
"Being of service is helping the Universe, and in return the Universe will help you!" 
♥∞,

~B

P.S.  It's been weeks since Operation Beautiful but the message of love is still going strong at school.  Little notes keep popping up all over campus.  I'm so excited to have started this!

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Most fun gift so far...

My momma's first tattoo!  It's my favorite gift I've been able to give so far:


She loves it!

Friday, February 5, 2010

That's me! That's me!

 

I am the kind provider of nice things!  

An anonymous Thank You for my anonymous good deed.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

“Lokah Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu”


Lokah Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu is a Sanskrit mantra meaning, "May all beings everywhere be happy and free." 

It is something I believe in strongly.  In "being love", I am compassionate toward ALL living things.  I know that everything that is alive and has a spirit, is here for a reason.  That we are all connected.

 

This past Sunday I gave my day to Animal Acres.  A sanctuary in Acton, CA that houses animals rescued from the factory farming industry.  I first volunteered last month during my 31 Days of Giving and fell in love.  I vowed to come back once a month.  I love everyone there, both human and animal.

It's a lot of work, but absolutely worth it.  Every minute I spend there is a happy one.  Whether I'm giving a pig a belly rub or shoveling poop.  (There's a lot of poop shoveling.)  There's an overwhelming feeling of peace and you can't help but feel good all day.

 

I found out about Animal Acres in my research after reading "Eating Animals" by Jonathan Safran FoerIt is the most important book I have ever read.  I gave it as a Christmas present to all my loved ones with an understanding that it is meant to be read and passed on.  It shouldn't sit on a bookshelf, it needs to be spread.  My original copy has already been passed on at least 3 times.

Even though I was already vegan when I heard about the book, I was a very socially shy/relatively new one.  Which I sometimes feel ashamed to admit how new to veganism I am, considering the animal lover I have always been.  Though I was a healthy eater before, I did love the taste of meat.  In recent years, I only really ate meat socially when with friends or family.  Then in early 2009, I happily went from a not-picky-eat-anything omnivore to vegetarian to (mostly raw) vegan almost overnight without looking back.  

At first I did it for myself, (that's a whole 'nother blog!) with the environmental effects being second and the cruelty free part being last.  I only knew the basics of how animals became meat or should I say, I only wanted to know the basics.  Reading "Eating Animals" changed all of that.  I couldn't believe I didn't know all this already.  How does the majority of the world not know this?  And so I had what Oprah calls an, "Aha!" moment.

In reading "Eating Animals", I not only wanted to become more informed on the industry, but I wanted to learn how to change it.  I wanted to become an activist.  I want to help and I want to inform.  My research has lead me to a bunch of amazing organizations that I have become a part of.  But mostly it has lead me to the facts.  Watching documentaries like Earthlings (please see this movie!), Meet Your Meat, The Cove, Food Inc, & Fowl Play, showed me the standard practices of the industry without holding anything back.

I now understand why vegans/animal activists have always been so outspoken.  Because they know.  And now I know and I am different because of it.  At first, changing what I ate was self serving.  I saw lots of positive change within me like, an increase in energy level, my skin is glowing, my body is slim, my attitude is always bright and my overall state of mind is peaceful.  Everything has become clearer and I am more aware and present.  I feel light.  Granted, veganism isn't the only thing that has changed with me, but it is what I attribute to the change in my outlook.  Now knowing the effects on the world around me, the choice to eat the way I do is for the well-being of ALL things.  Not just for me, but for the animals, the planet and all of humanity.

It has made me kinder, more generous and infinitely compassionate with no effort.  Just like giving, it's a feeling I want everyone to partake in.

 

 ♥∞,

~B

And in case you're wondering what vegans eat, check out Quarry Girl's blog.  Or my favorite restaurants: Au Lac, Native Foods, Cafe Gratitude & Gracias Madre.  Of course, my kitchen is always filled with amazing food as well.  If you are what you eat, then I am super girl because all I eat are super foods!

"May all that have life be delivered from suffering" -- Buddha